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Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Something To Share

"Letting Go" is one of the most painful thing we have to do in life.

In life, we have to let go of someone we care very deeply which we realize that person does not meant for us in any way. Maybe it is best to leave them remembering us with whatever kind of feeling they do have for us. It may not be possible to hide our own deeper feelings for that person, which could make their life uncomfortable. Letting Go may be the best gift we can give them because they may realize how we feel, yet care enough not to hurt us.

Even when we know a relationship is not right, on both sides, or one person has a doubt about it, it is hard to let go of something that seems secure. We often accept less than the best because we can’t bear to let go.

"Well, it's never easy to let go, especially when it comes to you."

I don't really want to let you go, but inside me I know I must. The times we've loved is short but that's what left in me after this. Although, my heart says stay, but it's my mind I must trust, my consciousness. We have shared so much together, laughter, fun times and thinking, yet sometimes we can't turn back time. We must walk away, and allow ourselves to heal.
To let go does not mean to stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else. To let go is not to care for, but it's to care about. To let go is not to fix, but to be supportive. To let go is not to be protective, it's to permit another to face reality. To let go is not to deny, but to accept.

Living in dilemma is never the way of my life. I'm learning to let go. Yes, this is not what I want, but this is the best for you and for me. For now, we know we have each other in our heart. And I wish you will spare some space in your heart just to keep this best memories of us in it. I always hope there's a better way but I guess this will be the best.

The care for you will never change. And I hope this goes the same for you. ♥